Throughout the Group Coaching Essentials program I am often asked by coaches new to group coaching "What are the pitfalls to this work? What should I watch out for?". Often times I hear that coaches are concerned about handling some of the "personas" or "personalities" which may show up in a group.
Having worked with literally thousands of group members over the past 20 plus years, here are a few that you may see:
1. "The talker" - In any group program (group coaching, workshop, retreat) it is quite common too have one participant who is a little more verbose/talkative, to the point of taking over the conversation.
To avoid challenges with a more verbose, talkative participant, you may want to: Introduce the Skill of "bottom lining" or getting to the core of an issue, at the start of a program (even when setting ground rules).
Spend time up front before the start of the program, getting to know participants and discussing with them what they can expect from the group process. These pre-program 1-1 calls are invaluable in developing a positive relationship with group members, and clarifying expectations.
2. The Challenger - In any group process you may have one, or more, people who really want to be at the front of the room, and act out by challenging - challenging the process, the timelines, the topics etc.
When you have a challenger it may be because they want to be mroe involved. Have them write on flipcharts, post flipcharts etc. Oftentimes being in the spotlight for a short while is enough for them to have their "need to be seen met"
3. The Quiet One - It can also be common to have group members who are not at all talkative and want to remain very quiet or even silent. This may be due to a number of reasons - they are processors and take more time to formulate responses, they are uncomfortable, they may be more intraverted.
Remember to include exercises or use tools which enable people to write out their ideas, as well as speak them. Also quieter participants may be more comfortable speaking in smaller groups. Again, the pre-program 1-1 calls can help alert you to participants who may indicate that they are quieter by nature.
4. The Joker - You may also find the Joker in your midst. The person who cracks jokes incessently which may not always be appropriate. As the coach and facilitator remember that it is important to take charge and set the tone in your "room" (virtual or real). As a coach you may also want to get curious about what the "Joker" is all about.
5. The SuperAchiever - Many groups often have a "super achiever" - the person who leaves the room and gets done even more than they said they would (consistently). This can be a great motivational force for other group members - seeing another group member "walking the talk". It may also raise the bar for the entire group.
As a coach, notice the impact this is having on the group - is it positive/negative/other? Observe, reflect back what you notice.
What other personas have shown up in your "room" lately? What impact did it have on the group? As always, please feel free to comment below.
Jennifer Britton, PCC, CPCC
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